This is the first relationship I've been in where I've made a conscious effort to maintain my boundaries and ensure that I have a life that is mine, and not completely 'ours.'
Apparently this is not conducive to happy coupledom. No acrimony, no nastiness, just over.
And you know what? Now I know why I made that conscious effort. I still have my life, and that's a pretty huge thing for me to have learned.
So, thank you. *hugs*