October 24th, 2007

happy

Right then

OK, so it looks like I no longer have a boyfriend.

This is the first relationship I've been in where I've made a conscious effort to maintain my boundaries and ensure that I have a life that is mine, and not completely 'ours.'

Apparently this is not conducive to happy coupledom. No acrimony, no nastiness, just over.

And you know what? Now I know why I made that conscious effort. I still have my life, and that's a pretty huge thing for me to have learned.

So, thank you. *hugs*