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Tactical Ninja - Did it

Jan. 16th, 2014

03:35 pm - Did it

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Finally did that friends cut. Always hard, I feel stink, as usual. Removed people who hadn't posted in forever that I don't know in person, people I've never interacted with, who never commented or never replied to my comments, and people who I just don't click with.

One day I'll get up the fortitude and actually remove people I know in person, that I also know won't be back. Maybe.

If you think you've been removed by mistake, let me know. Feel free to cut me too if you aren't interested in interacting with me.

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From:dragonvyxn
Date:January 16th, 2014 03:07 am (UTC)
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that's rough. i'm not sure how it compares to the amex bs you had to go through though...
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:18 pm (UTC)
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This was harder. The credit card thing is just giving them a piece of my mind. This is like, all emotional and shit.

I am a knob.
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From:dragonvyxn
Date:January 16th, 2014 08:31 pm (UTC)
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aww. you're not so bad!
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From:helianthas
Date:January 16th, 2014 04:11 am (UTC)
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I'm going to use this post as an excuse to use this icon!
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From:roobarb
Date:January 16th, 2014 08:51 am (UTC)
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I love that icon :)
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:19 pm (UTC)
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Best.Icon.Ever.
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From:blue_eye
Date:January 16th, 2014 05:41 am (UTC)
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I'm so glad I made the cut!

One day I'll get up the fortitude and actually remove people I know in person, that I also know won't be back. Maybe.

Welcome to my life!
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:19 pm (UTC)
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Are you also one of those people who keeps two old photos that are almost exactly the same because you can't bring yourself to chuck one of them?
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From:blue_eye
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:39 pm (UTC)
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Yep.

We could be twins separated at birth!
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:47 pm (UTC)
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And still have the old photos to prove it!
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From:nick_101
Date:January 16th, 2014 08:18 am (UTC)
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Thanks for keeping me.
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:16 pm (UTC)
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You're welcome. I like you. Of course I'd keep you. ;-)
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From:roobarb
Date:January 16th, 2014 08:52 am (UTC)
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I need to do a tidy up too and get myself back into regular posting
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:20 pm (UTC)
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It's pretty easy to fall out of the habit, eh? While I was on holiday I didn't even read LJ. Clearly my habit is work-related. Oops. O.o
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From:jenny_evergreen
Date:January 16th, 2014 12:05 pm (UTC)
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I'm glad I made the cut, too, at least for now! :)
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:16 pm (UTC)
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Hehe of course you did! ;-)
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From:meathiel
Date:January 16th, 2014 05:33 pm (UTC)
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Phew ... still here ... :D

I removed my cousin recently. I've seen her since then but she hasn't mentioned it so I guess she didn't even see it as she's never on LJ ...
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:16 pm (UTC)
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That's pretty much the case with lots of people I know IRL. I agonise over removing them, and they probably don't give a rat's arse because LJ doesn't matter to them any more.

To me, it feels like a personal slight to remove someone you know. But I guess I'm not the centre of the universe after all, eh? ;-)
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From:meathiel
Date:January 17th, 2014 06:15 am (UTC)
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I think everybody feels like that ... if you have a (more) personal connection with people it's definitely harder to delete them. I never had many people I know IRL on my f-list and by now I've deleted all of them. Funny thing, that!
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From:blue_eye
Date:January 16th, 2014 07:41 pm (UTC)
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Don't feel bad.

I removed my nephew awhile back. Hadn't posted in years...
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From:anna_en_route
Date:January 16th, 2014 08:56 pm (UTC)
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thank you =)
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From:meri_sielu
Date:January 16th, 2014 09:34 pm (UTC)
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Thank you for keeping me, I love reading your posts. :)
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From:tatjna
Date:January 16th, 2014 09:35 pm (UTC)
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Likewise. ;-)
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From:adam_0oo
Date:January 17th, 2014 12:48 am (UTC)
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UGH, SUCH BS, I CAN'T EVEN READ THIS ENTRY BECAUSE NOW, NO FRIENDS!!!


Oh, wait.
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From:adnama_wpg
Date:January 18th, 2014 02:23 am (UTC)
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Woo I made the cut!
But I bet it's because Lincoln is so adorable. :)
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From:fuvenusrs
Date:January 18th, 2014 06:10 am (UTC)
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You kept me! *victory dance*
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